Ladies rights in dubai?

I'm Suresh . Am electrical engineer and looking for jobs in Dubai . My wife is sap consultant in India. . We are having 1 yr old baby . Is it safe for women to work in Dubai ??How much possiblity to get baby sitters in Dubai ??How is market scenario for electrical engineer and SAP - abap??Whther anybody suggest good consultancy name to get jobs in Dubai. We are more desparate to come Dubai ..